But don’t worry; dating coach Michael Valmont’s top tips will help you tackle the transition with ease First and foremost, during the initial stages of dating you both need to be moving in the same direction.
There needs to be a mutual understanding; you’re dating to start a relationship with each other.
But sadly, many people want to feel that rush of emotion that makes them feel like they are in love. The truth is that the best dating relationships develop out of great friendships.
So they push hard and quickly to feel that overwhelming emotion that says, I am in love. Riah describes how rushing into a relationship has a lot of disadvantages: “First, if you go too far you could get hurt mentally because of a bad break-up, and physically you could get an STD or something.
The truth is, this feeling of urgency and intensity or strong attraction toward another person is not necessarily a reliable indicator of whether you are in love or should immediately dive into a serious dating relationship.The wisest man in the bible, King Solomon said, Guard your affections, for out of them come the issues of life.I see far too many people jumping into relationships and not guarding their affections, only to become confused, disillusioned, and devastated.This can’t happen when one party simply doesn’t want a relationship or is evasive about spending quality time with you.There might be some clear red flags warning you that the person you’re dating isn’t ready for a relationship.