I wrote this for all the other quiet girls out there.
Let me make this whole thing easy for you: If you can’t tell whether or not he likes you, your best bet is to strongly that he does and give him clear and obvious opportunities for him to make a move for you (assuming you’re into him and not just wondering for vanity’s sake.) He’s shy? If a guy doesn’t call, it means he’s just not that into me, right?There are some girls who have no problem going up to the person they like and flirting aggressively until he/she is just as obsessed with her as she is with him – if not more. I’ve gotten a lot more outgoing than I used to be, but I still describe myself as a shy person. These girls aren’t terrified to make the first move, the thought of rejection doesn’t paralyze them, and they don’t spend a conversation blurting out awkward things and then trying to backtrack. I’ve never made the first move, ever, and when I was single, the idea of a first date made me want to crawl under a rock. Many of her friends are the ~life of the party~ and she loves them for it. Making solid eye contact is a legitimately difficult thing to do when you're shy! Don't call her out for not being able to make eye contact. Realistically speaking, the two of you wouldn't be able to look each other in the eye and everything would be a hot mess.