Female friends of mine have said that the person is probably trying to avoid hurting my feelings because they are not actually interested, which is fine, but it hurts more to just be frozen out because there is still that lingering doubt.
I’d rather just be told up front and not be given the run around. Girls will seem like they are not interested and then get angry with me when I stop contacting them.
Obviously, you want it to go well, so that’s the main reason.
Every once in a while, the lady can pick up a check as a nice gesture, but splitting a bill or trying to keep it even feels petty. The guy does, it saves an argument and lets the guy show off a little bit.If you have a good time with a girl but you have to remember that a guy might be talking with a few others.Second is that maybe the guy didn’t have that good of a time and wants to just be polite. It could be that he’s not sure if you thought the date went well and he doesn’t want to be rejected, maybe he was looking for something casual and he realized the woman was looking for a relationship and he didn’t want to be an asshole and lead her on.I wondered about what types of insecurities they faced on first dates.I wondered if they thought online dating was as frustrating as I think it is.